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Showing posts with label Purpose. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Purpose. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 18, 2016

A PASSION STILL STRONG

Prof. Grace Alele Williams
There is a quote that says, ‘people with passion can change the world for the better.’ Well, I’ll also add that to impact positively, passion must be constructively driven. Passion is the energy we need to follow through with our dreams. I think if you don’t have passion for anything, you cannot amount to anything.

I know a woman of passion and I have admired her a great deal since my undergraduate days. An illustrious personality of many admirable qualities; an astute scholar, outstanding administrator and advocate of Girl Child Education; she is a woman worthy of emulation. Her name is Professor (Mrs) Grace Awani Alele Williams, the first Nigerian woman to have a doctorate degree, the first female Professor of Mathematics Education and the first female Vice-Chancellor in sub-Saharan African.
And she did excel in a position which, at that time, was dominated by men. As  VC of Great University of Benin, she was a mother and mentor; her doors were thrown open to everyone including students.
My husband, who graduated from UNIBEN in 1991, was one of the students she took under her tutelage. He told me of how they could go to her home at any time to eat and how the university gave every student a bursary of five hundred naira monthly. Though, a no-nonsense person, she treated the  students like her own children, listened to them and mentored them.

Her footprints on the sands of the Ivory Tower attest to her passion, prowess and selflessness. Her works still speak today, not only in UNIBEN, but in every institution she worked.

Why am I writing about her?
I attended an event where she was honoured recently in Warri, South-South Nigeria. You could tell from her unwritten speech, where her passion still lies. At almost 84 years, still beautiful and graceful, she stood for more than 10 minutes, not only lamenting the deteriorating state of the education sector, but also calling on government to implement recommendations made years ago, at different times, to salvage the system. What brought tears to my eyes was the passion with which she spoke.
Commissioning of a Science Laboratory in honor of Prof. Alele Williams

A passion still strong.

It was from deep inside; the anguish of a mother crying for the redemption of future generations; a mother who had worked so hard with others in her generation to build a virile nation. Oh, the pain of seeing small-minded bigots tear down the good works they have done.

How did it all go wrong? At what point did the rot start?
I observed that the quality of education at the time Mama Grace Alele Williams went to school was top-notch. All the elderly people who spoke at that event proved it. Well-thought out and well-structured speeches were well-delivered with poise, without scripts! They spoke without holding any paper written by ignorant speech writers.
Today, those we call leaders struggle to read speeches written for them. University graduates can’t speak a simple sentence correctly, not to talk of writing it. Many young people can’t define their purpose and vision. The passion they burn with tends to all sorts of perversion.
I think if we must move forward in developing ourselves and our nation, we need to learn from these great people who have gone ahead of us how to make Nigeria a nation our own children will flourish in.
There  should be a passion that must remain strong in us no matter what stands in our way, no matter where we go and regardless of who we become. That was what Prof. Alele Williams radiated on that day and there is no reason why this can’t be your story and my story, only if we set our minds to it.

Mama Grace, I salute you ma.
From Left: Grace Olumayowa Aideloje, Greatman D. Aideloje, Prof. Grace Awani Alele Williams, Mrs Lolo  Aideloje at an event in honor of Prof. Alele Williams.







Friday, October 19, 2012

HOW TO DEVELOP THE HABIT OF WRITING DAILY 3


Have you ever wondered why you don’t achieve your plans? You make a good decision and make plans to achieve them. You even take some steps and record a level of victory, but along the line; you abandon the whole project for untenable reasons.
One of the major factors responsible for this is lack of a clear, strong purpose.

You cannot succeed at anything in life without a clear, strong purpose. That is what drives dreams and talents. As a writer, you need a clear purpose to succeed at developing a habit of writing every day.

When a man has not a good reason for doing a thing, he has one good reason for letting it alone. -Scott

Purpose sustains your determination and propels you to the fulfillment of your goals.

This article is the third in the series: How To Develop The Habit of Writing Daily and it focuses on having a good purpose and using it to drive your desire to write every day. It involves careful planning with diligence to work the plan.

Why do you want to write every day?  

Get a journal and a pen and take time to plan on how you want to develop a healthy writing habit that will make you an accomplished writer.


1.      WRITE OUT YOUR GOAL.
Here is an example you can work with. Write the questions and your own answers in the journal. 
  • What kind of habit do you want to develop? 
“I want to develop the habit of writing every day.”  
  • Why do you want to develop the habit?

“To live up to my status as a writer”

“To improve my writing skills”

“To become an accomplished writer”



2.     DECIDE YOUR TACTIC

Keep your goal in mind, then decide the plan of action or strategy to achieve the goals. Answering these questions will help you formulate a good plan.

  • How much time will you devote to writing daily?
“I want to write two hours a day.”

This will give you an average of sixty hours a month. That’s a whole lot if you will stick to it.
  • What time of the day will be most convenient for you with less distraction?

“4am to 6am”

  • What will be your focus of writing? (What will you be writing?) 

“I want to write a book titled The Benefits of Drinking Water.”


Someone once said, more men fail through lack of purpose than through lack of talent. Now you have a purpose that will drive you to fulfill your goals. Always remember that without a well-defined purpose, you cannot attain your goals, no matter how lofty they are. 
  • The next thing to write down is why you are writing the book.

“I want to let people know how they can live longer and healthier by drinking sufficient clean water.

This is a clear objective for writing your book.
  • What is the size of the book?
 “It’s going to be a small book of about 60- 70 pages.”

  • How long should it take you to write a 70-page book if you write two hours a day?
Set a time determined by your level of skill, speed and experience.

If you are a beginner, you can write it in a month, if you stick to your 2 hours per day writing. That means you write two or three pages a day. 
 “It will take me a month (30-31 days) to write the book.” 

When you add the time for research, editing and proofreading, you can have your book ready in two months.
  • When is your deadline?
It is easy to give a specific date if you have determined the time it will take you to write. Check your calendar and mark the specific day you will have your manuscripts ready for editing. If you are starting on the 5th of a month, your manuscript must be ready on the 3rd of the next month.

“My deadline is 3rd of August 2012.”


Make yourself accountable. Tell a friend, a family member, your mentor, or some members of your Writers’ group about your plan. Ask them to remind you and hold you accountable. It helps when you have to report to someone.



Developing good habits is a long-term commitment, but one that is worth every ounce of effort required to develop them.


 3. DON’T BE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF

For some reasons, there may be days when you may not write for two hours. It may be due to an emergency or some unforeseen commitments that demands your time and energy. Don’t beat yourself on the head. Writing is hard work and failing to write for one or two days because something else came up is not a complete failure.

Sometimes you have to review your plan if they unachievable. Don’t be too rigid. If you discover that two hours is too hard for you to keep up with, reduce it to one or less. The goal is to write every day, no matter how small. You are free to adjust your plan and inform the people you are accountable to.

Be honest with yourself. It’s your goal and plan and no one can really make you achieve it, if you are not committed.

The level of success you will achieve as writer in a few years from now will be determined by how devoted you are to your dreams and how conscientious you carry out your writing assignments.

Grace Olumayowa Aideloje
©2012 PenParables
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